From Silent Struggle to True Identity in Christ

My Story

I grew up as the firstborn son, and with that came a lot of pressure. I had to be the example — the obedient one, the one who never messed up, the one who made my parents proud. On the outside, it looked like I was doing everything right. But inside, I felt like I was always failing.

Even when people would compliment me, my parents would brush it off. They’d say I was just pretending, that others didn’t know the real me. Over time, I started to believe them. No matter how much I gave, it never felt like enough. And deep down, I felt empty — like I was just going through the motions of life.

I tried to fix it. I read books, I meditated, I tried building new habits. But I was still chained. Shame wouldn’t let go. Resentment grew in my heart. I carried anger I didn’t know what to do with. Perfectionism controlled my work, and every failure in business felt like proof that I wasn’t good enough. I kept trying to change because I hated myself. Nothing worked.

The real change came when I found Christ. For the first time, I realized my identity wasn’t in what I did, what I achieved, or how perfect I could be. My identity was in Him. And little by little, the chains started to fall. Shame. Anger. Resentment. Addictions. Lies I believed about myself. I wasn’t performing for worth anymore. I was living from it.

Now I know what it feels like to live as a hostage in your own mind — stuck in shame, afraid to face the shadows. But I also know what it’s like to finally be free. That’s why I do this work. Not to fix you, but to walk with you. To shine light on the places you’ve been scared to look at. To remind you who you really are in God’s eyes.

You are not broken. You are being refined.

Discover the unconscious patterns that keep you stuck in overthinking, guilt, and self-doubt — even when life looks “good.”

Transform Your Life

Our Mission

Our mission is to help you break free from the weight of shame, trauma, and old beliefs so you can live as the person God made you to be.

Release

Restore

Renew

We let go of the shame, fear, and lies that have been sitting heavy on your heart for years. This is about releasing the need to prove yourself, releasing the pressure to be perfect, and releasing the old survival patterns that kept you safe once but now only keep you stuck.

When you release the weight, you create space to be restored. This is where Christ comes in — restoring your true identity, reminding you that you were never broken beyond repair. It’s about coming back to who you really are, who you were always meant to be, before the pain, before the pressure.

Once you’ve released and been restored, your mind begins to shift. The inner voice softens. The fear loses its grip. You see yourself, your story, and your future with fresh eyes. You walk differently. You speak differently. You live renewed, not because life is perfect, but because you finally feel free to be yourself in Christ.

2 Corinthians 5:17

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come."

Voices Of Healing

When hearts are willing, God begins to move. These stories are proof of His work in people’s lives.

Chris D.

"Jacky’s coaching style is real, honest, and straight to the heart. He doesn’t sugarcoat things, but somehow it feels gentle at the same time. That mix of truth and compassion is rare."

Sumi M.

"Jacky showed me how to observe my thoughts instead of fighting them. That simple shift gave me peace I didn’t think was possible."

Maya C.

"The way Jacky uses analogies makes hard truths easy to understand. His words are simple, but they hit different. I feel the shift in real time"

Psalm 51:10

""Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me"

Rachel L.

Through each and every of his content, I took away powerful messages and overtime this has helped me shift my mindset from being inward focused, to being outward focused, from wanting to control, to letting go.

Johnny C.

“I always felt like my emotions controlled me. Through Jacky's coaching, I learned how to pause, reflect, and respond instead of reacting. My relationships feel safer and I finally know how to express myself without guilt.”

Andrea N.

“For years I was carrying guilt that I thought I could never get rid of. With Jacky’s guidance, I saw that God’s grace is bigger than my past. I don’t just believe it in my head but I feel it in my heart, and it’s given me a whole new sense of control.”